RELATIONSHIPS
Today is just one of those days you wake up and dont feel like doing a single thing but i guess God just had ith all planned different for moi. I've officially become the listening ears and conscience/judge of friends and family. Got a call from a friend K today and all the guy wan talk about na his relationship with his babe (relationship of close to three years)falling apart cos the madame aint got so much time for him again, she has also found her voice and say her piece while looking him staright in the eye!!my friend is one of those typical nija boys who think a wife should be seen and not heard, thinks she should be domestic with capital D. he gave a lot of instances where the lady hasnt measured up to standard and am like how did she keep her true self bottled all the years they spent in nija together. the babe's family are not helping with all their talks of the guy being too full of himself yada yada! Moi just told the guy they might just need to reasses what is important to their relationship considering they were meant to get married last month and already have gone thru the family intro.
As if that wasnt enough my girlfriend Jay called and started yarning about not been sure she wants to carry on with her bobo- his crime: he's called pastor within a religious circle and she doesnt think she'll fit in with the expected norms, this coming after a year of love dovey! she really angered me when she said she even went on a trip over nite trip with a former toaster. my jay isnt getting younger but i can understand all this issues with committment and all but i tell them i dont qualify as the best help considering the fact that my man and i just threw caution to the winds, got hitched, cant get enough of each other, never laid down rules or laws before the do. Going back to my friend K, i wonder why some men just keep loooking for perfection seeing as we all can only try abi na only feel these two have got it sooooo mixed up? I can understand its not easy to commit to another human now and forever, in sickness and in health, wealth and poverty, ups and downs, lows and highs! till death do part, i told the funny dude that as long as the babe can meet essentials as in: hold a good conversation, can pray to God without dodgyness, keep and maintain body, soul and home, give the best SEX in different styles and turn as many tricks in bed without strangulation what else can a bro want! help me out here peeps.