RELATIONSHIPS

Today is just one of those days you wake up and dont feel like doing a single thing but i guess God just had ith all planned different for moi. I've officially become the listening ears and conscience/judge of friends and family. Got a call from a friend K today and all the guy wan talk about na his relationship with his babe (relationship of close to three years)falling apart cos the madame aint got so much time for him again, she has also found her voice and say her piece while looking him staright in the eye!!my friend is one of those typical nija boys who think a wife should be seen and not heard, thinks she should be domestic with capital D. he gave a lot of instances where the lady hasnt measured up to standard and am like how did she keep her true self bottled all the years they spent in nija together. the babe's family are not helping with all their talks of the guy being too full of himself yada yada! Moi just told the guy they might just need to reasses what is important to their relationship considering they were meant to get married last month and already have gone thru the family intro.
As if that wasnt enough my girlfriend Jay called and started yarning about not been sure she wants to carry on with her bobo- his crime: he's called pastor within a religious circle and she doesnt think she'll fit in with the expected norms, this coming after a year of love dovey! she really angered me when she said she even went on a trip over nite trip with a former toaster. my jay isnt getting younger but i can understand all this issues with committment and all but i tell them i dont qualify as the best help considering the fact that my man and i just threw caution to the winds, got hitched, cant get enough of each other, never laid down rules or laws before the do. Going back to my friend K, i wonder why some men just keep loooking for perfection seeing as we all can only try abi na only feel these two have got it sooooo mixed up? I can understand its not easy to commit to another human now and forever, in sickness and in health, wealth and poverty, ups and downs, lows and highs! till death do part, i told the funny dude that as long as the babe can meet essentials as in: hold a good conversation, can pray to God without dodgyness, keep and maintain body, soul and home, give the best SEX in different styles and turn as many tricks in bed without strangulation what else can a bro want! help me out here peeps.

WAITHING AND WATCHING

All weekend i tried to update, but naso so house work make me tire even had to cornroll little missy'friends hair. Husby cldnt believe the little girls mum and i are not friends and i fit the girls hair like every three weeks. Anywho, am still expecting a call from these silly peeps as per an update about the checks i've been told they'd run on me with regards to the job offer but them peeps are giving me hbp with the silent mode over a week and no calls yet.
The last time i worked in a proper office env, our oga ( the top man) is a proper fire fire minister, the guy was practically dictating our wardrobe, hairstyles, make up, pedicure et al in short our who style or non style i dare say was about what MAA approved of. Now am about to go back to work and i need to reload and restock my little room(clothes shop) if you ladies know whari mean. Been trying on new stilts and walking round my little abode in heels so i dont have a walk-in-disaster on my first day at work.
I've just linked up with a prospective nanny for the little ones but na only jamo style english the lady sabi, this gives me serious headaches o, cos my twin boys just start to dey talk and me no know wetin go shele now if the kids pick up this nanny's way of talking, their papa don talk say make i give am chance and see how it goes. one of the boys took to her one time but the other one just dey le.
Mother's day was ok, got a lovely card signed by little missy on behalf of her brothers and a lovely handprint with lots of cutes word from missy herself. Dad told me am appreciated in lots of ways toooo colourful and intense for blogville before i blind my peeps!
I need to get a call from these peeps ooo! need to start sorting my home affairs, am tired of keeping my potentials locked up abeg.Hope you all have a beautiful week although right now these my bundles of joy don wear me out gotta go

GIVING THANKS

I just visited linda's blog and read her post on sickle cell and it has moved me to give thanks to God for the journey so far.
live each day with the presence of God's love
taking time to give praise for all his glory
do't allow worldly distractions to influence or take control of your life
rather gain mastery over life so that you may determine all it has in store

utilise God's gift of intellect using your time constructively to enable you to grow, develop and reach great heights in all areas of your life
in all that you embark upon, strive for non-lessthan excellence
believing that you are an expression of the divine love of God and capable of achieving
anything.
surrender all that you are to the creator so that he can reveal all that he desires you to be
lovingly fulfilling your every need......
Today as always i can't give enough thanks to God for giving my family life my husby, my kids and i are all carriers of sickle cell and i pray every minute for all those who have sickle cell anaemia, i know it cant be easy for them and their careers but God sits on the throne. I remember when husby and i started dating and we knew we are both AS, those who found out amongst our friends and family were very encouraging . We cant still understand why we went on to seal the deal to get married i can only say what the lord plans he crosses all ts and dots all i's. Ours is a divine love of GOD, especially now i recall when we were told the twins were about to join our family, i intensified my prayers and God answered my prayers.I pray this disease will one day be put to rest.
To all mothers out there HAPPY MOTHERS DAY and i hope your kids are not like my little missy who is trying so hard to keep a lovely piece of art work she's made for me( i picked her up from nursery andthe art work is face up and i cld see everything) am still playing along for the surprise as she wishes.

random things and things

Longtime no blog peeps, i dont know whats up wiv me but i get to browse and read blogs everyday but to write na wahala! Its been a bit stressful the past weeks wiv the boys passing on colds and cough, sorethroat and hay fever around not forgetting little missy herself has been sharing wiv her bros. For some reason i cant explain my little missy has become addicted to cough mix and she keeps asking for some medication or the other claiming she doesnt feel too good, she even tells me she has multiple pains so i can give her some! abeg anyone out there has a cure for this nutty girl. Husby and i entered another realm lastnite, i just couldnt understand the guy and he definitely wasnt feeling my point, rewind to the start of the year i've been putting up wiv a lot of demands from some of his peeps but i try not to dwell too much on it, na so the guy just keep dey take me for granted say i no dey mind any of the decisions he makes. This time around i just told him how it will affect us if his decision no favour or consider me first, to top it all up the man goes to church for midweek service and right after e go offer to drop one of the ladies and her kids home. i haventgot a problem wiv him doing the nice guy stuff but abeg no expect me to start to cook food and stew or whatever else he feels like at 10pm when i suppose dey rest from my own full day, the man just press my buttons when he came back lastnite and i gave him the low down. husby decided to go all spiritual on me saying he loves to give and for some reason he doesnt think am on the same page wiv him when it comes to that, see me see wahala trouble sidon yanga go wake am up for the 1st time lolita talk her piece and didnt feel the need to shut up. We need to clear the air before tomorrow cos i aint doing my anniversary wiv bad cloud hanging( did i mention its 5yrs since we said i do). Before i forget i don finally land one nice job atleast i can start to study and make a life from being a full time mum and darling/submissive wifey!!!